Jonathan Narrates How He Lost A Lady He Truly Loved
My name is Jonathan and I’m about to tell you my love story about a girl I met on social media (Facebook to be precise).
On a very good special night we had a chat on knowing each other better, to my surprise she was a kind of a snub that I started forcing myself on her. So, after some days she replied my messages that was how I got her attention. Then we started chatting cool and I collected her number from there we became so close that she could not cough without her telling me first. And as at that time she had issues with her boyfriend which she told me about and I tried to talk to her on what to do just to be okay in her relationship but still things were not working so well in the sense that she was planning to break up her relationship (mind you this was not because of me) which I was very sad about but nothing would change her mind. So, I allowed her do her wish.
After then we got so close more than before to the extent that there was nothing I hid from her. That was how I started developing feelings for her and I decided to keep that feelings because I did not want to tell her anything about it. Then I realized the more I kept the feelings the more I got hurt. So, on this fateful day I called her and registered my feelings for her and this was after months that we became friends. She got really pestered that I could I tell her such thing and she hung up on me. I felt really bad about this but because of my goal I did not stop expressing how I feel to her. She refused picking my calls and she would not even reply my texts and I started blaming myself for even expressing myself in the first place. So, I decided not to talk to her or chat her up for days then she called me and apologized for behaving in that manner so I let it slide and we got back as friends that we were. But still yet I did not stop telling her my mind and she was confused and speechless. She said I should give her time to think about it and as she was thinking I was still disturbing her. On one special night she called me to come online and her chat was childish that night but I did not take it personal. This same night she accepted to be my lover but before she said yes she said we should just be friends but I rejected bluntly then I stopped replying her and I went offline. She called me on phone again that she was only kidding me that her answer is yes. When she told me this, abruptly I shouted and jumped up and from then we became lovers.
On her first visit to my place it was a great day, I introduced her to my brother and my brother was very happy to meet her likewise she. The love was blooming and everything was going fine between us. We felt so much for each other and even people around us thought we would marry. It was during this period that I had the feeling that true loves exists. But suddenly it got to a point and things changed. She hardly call, text and even to visit was a problem. For like three months we did not see and the reason was unknown to me. She was always occupied and even if I say I should come see her she would not agree. But I still had the believe that there was still love between after the hard time we had together, I could not bear the pain so I had to tell my brother about it. He advised me how to go about such situation. So, I gave my brother her number to talk to her and ask what the problem was and he told my brother that he would come see him but he did not come and I already left home for school then but my brother called to tell me that she refused to show up and I told him not to call her again.
Fast forward to the part where we broke up. I went to a church programme and the pastor said we should give our lives to Christ that we youths should not engage ourselves in dating or sexual intercourse so I was really confused and because of this I called of the relationship. Mind you I did not really understand how this happened but maybe it was due to how she was making me feel as at that time. After a week I called her to apologize for what I said and she agreed. Then I said we should continue but she refused bluntly, I begged her for like six months but it was all to no avail. One day I invited her to my place and she came, when she got to my place I took her phone to see if she was seeing someone else and that was how I got to discover that she was into another relationship. I stopped begging and I moved on but till now I cannot get her away from my heart even after I’m seeing someone else.
That was how I lost Temitope. I learned my lesson!!!